Wine Country Weddings

Just to think that planning a wedding.

trying to limit costs as much as possible and that means doing without some things .... luxury car hire, photographers expensive, professionally made cakes, 3 breakfasts marriage course and the wine that flows in our pockets.

But I hope that even tho we have a better marriage that Wilson's fab day yet. Thought about my parents' marriage, they married in church at 1.30 local pub had turned cold buffet spread, then the speeches and mingling of everyone began to leave and they met back with their friends in the local club for disco outfits wedding. And they still Fab day and everyone looks so happy in their pictures .. However, it was around 1968, but made me think.

Do not get me wrong I like some of the churches, we married in the home country at local prices! bit run down, but as the conservatory and grounds, and we take part in the barn. Having a hot buffet with speeches and photos made by a friend who is good with the camera. Travelling in a motorhome ... love decorating van anyway. Tho we're having band and will wearing a white flowing robe.
And we wrote our own vows so happy not to church or religious, I think that churches are buildings with very special, but just not for us.

But this is not the case near posh as some of my friends and I'm worried people do not enjoy this right. But no marriages need all these great things further?

What are your thoughts on marriage traditions .. What do you like? What do you enjoy that changed? Or do you think we should go back to the former marriage?

I think part of the reason marriages have been well developed is because people are reluctant to take the easy way by getting a divorce if they have spent all this money on the marriage. These people who are secure in their relationships do not need all that to ensure the hard and effectively the value of the person they marry they material things.

I also think it is out of hand, chocolate fountain, sushi bar, all the newlyweds will be busy to enjoy. I keep the cost down wherever possible, and be a happy couple does not begin with the debt. Even if your parents pay and, in this economy, nobody has money to throw out the window. Make as much as you can yourself. Show people that you can be frugal, not cheap, and you'll both be happy. Good luck