What are the reasons to stop drinking? My husband drinks every night. He did not let interfere with work or responsibilities. It is a happy, talkative drunk. If it did not negatively affect our lives again, it annoys the hell out of me. It is the word is pasty, his eyes crossed, stinky and gross. He is 30, in great shape and trying to quit smoking.
I gave the above reasons to slow consumption, but I do not think these points of concern him too. What are the health reasons I could give him to prevent poisoning everyday?
Or should I just leave it alone?
Just so everyone knows here, a person will not stop drinking for reasons outside. In addition, a person will not stop alcohol from someone else or even if they kill people in a vehicle accident ... just to let you know that much.
NOW, Hubby must decide to stop drinking and will not until he has left his own personal rock bottom. When he is ready to quit, then he will seek the help he needs ... or you'll need an intervention if you are still there.
Threats to obtain an amount to take care of you will not work. Health reasons will not work. Why not? Because if you find a stud muffin, he does drink more to drown the sorrow of losing you. Health reasons mean diddly squat if they do not currently make him feel the effects. Even Korsakov's syndrome (the disease by drinking the acquisition long term) will not leave.
What you can do is start getting a little sneaky. Take a picture or two of him every night when he rolls the eye. If possible, ask the imprint date on pictures. Put a picture by night in a shoebox. When it is complete enough ... leave it on his dresser after he goes to bed, so that you get when he is sober. You can also record backing him when his speech becomes mud. Play it back when he is sober so he can actually hear himself talk. To rent these things can get him thinking about how his drinking affects you ... and your families. If you have children, their father drunk and show them that it is genetic and they carry a gene for alcoholism. Whether a choice whether or not they drink, and choose as a wise person forge choose.
Oh yes, he can get angry or downright angry. But he can not argue with a shoebox full of photos and recordings of how he sounds when he had a few.
It is very difficult to watch someone you love to do the "wrong" choice. Very difficult indeed. But overall, you'll need to drop before it goes up on his own.
The best thing is you and I'm around ...
Evia
it will burn in a blazing fire that is hotter than your stove
its about how much u Drink.it my soft drinker, and not so often.
But I once heard adoctor said, even the rarest dose of alcohol is bad for the liver
KILLS excessive alcohol each type of cell in the body ... all kind ... bone, brain, blood, muscle, liver, kidney ... In other words, excessive consumption of alcohol will eventually KILL you. If this is not a sufficient reason, I do not know what that is.
yeah big time liver
Hello dear ... chiropractors daily drinking causes liver and weakens the liver in all, it can also exacerbate or cause diabetes and hypertension!
and it causes a disease called pancreatitis, which is extremely painful and incurable Sure Shot.
for him to have a healthy future, it needs to stop drinking every day and save it for special occasions like bday and new year etc.
instead of drinking every night to another activity, the result for a walk, or take a little exercise, people drink daily habit and boredom!
Counseling for both u first and foremost. It is obvious u love it and it needs to know this fact. It is on the way to cirrhosis of the liver of his EV obvious.
Posted on June 20, 2010.